Call Me YOUR HIGHNESS!

郑导演在《百万小学堂》说“男生要有风度”，让我感触良多。

其实，风度是要培养的：让位给女生、老人和小孩，帮女生提东西等等，学校还真应该考虑让孩子上风度班。新加坡的男人普遍都没有风度。记得我第一次坐 G 的车，他很自然的走过来帮我开车门，这种行为我以为只有在戏里才有，让我对这个男生“刮目相看”。不过 G 是少数啦。昨天在搭车时有个男人硬抢在我前面上车，超级没风度！

Friends have been asking when I'm becoming a MRS and blah blah blah...
I'm under a lot of stress: the money, my career, my family, and the next stage of my life. Thanks to my friends, half of the to-do list are checked.

Checklist:
Setting a DATE 20 Oct 2010
Book a VENUE Corpthorne King's (thanks to L, it's within my budget)
Find a JP thanks to A
Groom's ATTIRE already tailored
Bridal's GOWN & ACCESORIES fr Blue Bay
Wedding Rings
Confirmation of GUEST LISTS
Prepare INVITATIONS
Make-up & Hair
Photo-taking

虽然从 Bugis 要回家，搭 MRT 最快，但搭 2 号通常有位子坐，而且不用换车。不过 2 号会经过 Geylang……

他一身酒味，跌坐在我身旁。我抬头望了他一眼，他双颊通红，眯着两眼，双手还握着 4 瓶 Carlsburg。其实他也没做什么奇怪动作，只是默默地闭目养神。不过，他的存在确实让我浑身不自在。想起身换位，又担心贸然换位或起立会引发不必要的骚动。我静静地观察他，注意他会不会作怪。结果，我在 Eunos 下车，顺道到凤娴家去。有惊无险。

一厢情愿的认为新加坡到处是福建人。

相约久违的 Ivan。听说他的女友很爱唱，也很能唱时，兴奋不已。乘着他们在放假，我和 R 也没做工，一起去唱 K。一问之下，才愕然发现这天我是少数（Minority)：3个海南人对我1个福建人。难以置信。

不过能认识兴趣相同的朋友，是很令人开心的。我们听歌的“口味”相近。她还建议我能试唱什么歌。初次见面，感觉不错。

09年作了一些重要的决定：改行、答应 R 的求婚、购屋。

之前在银行工作，觉得很多时候“身不由己”。原本，以为妹妹终于毕业了，决定出去拼一拼，做一些自己喜欢做的事。改行后，等于是自雇人士，收入不稳定，有些费用还是“投资”。改行不到一个月，却意外的答应 R 的求婚，而且在十月买了我们的爱巢。

10年是履行的时候。
3月是屋子的 2nd appointment，即是拿锁匙。
7月是令人期待的与姐妹淘的 trip to Australia 。这应该是婚前的最后一个单身之旅。
10月是成为别人太太的新旅程。
当然，还是的努力工作，还是的勒紧腰带。

没有时间也没有办法后悔决定。不管前路如何，定会提醒自己要秉持我“见招拆招”的精神。
欢迎2010。

Celebrating the n-th Christmas together, seriously running out of ideas. Of course, we could've done what we do best - lazing around to chit-chat or play Dai Di (大老二). But it's a celebration! So I thought we should do something more exciting. And I was glad to have suggested Wii.


It's easy to spend the afternoon challenging each other on some silly games - Raving Rabbids. We really have to thank the people behind the screen. We were totally exhausted after 5 intensive hours of exercising, laughing, screaming and doing funny poses. That's so fun!


Me, As the veteran, (of course) won most of the game. 无敌是寂寞. Ladies, keep practising. I waiting for you.

I only like to receive gifts. Buying presents is probably the what I'm most afraid of. I din intend to buy anything for the girls, I dun want to buy for the sake of buying. Besides, they are not going to hate me because I din given them any presents. I'm glad to finally got their presents in Genting! And we had fun opening up the pressies too. Not necessary expensive, but just practical and useful and fun!


p/s: Ali, dun worry we still love you no matter what.